I read somewhere that children of compulsive gamblers have a 25% chance of inheriting the addiction genes.Thank you for your comments and explaination on how an addict can impact their children lives.I am dealing with some trust issues but my girlfriend is extremely patient and she understands about my situation and what I have gone through.Perhaps her mom is angry that I am going through with the divorce, it is also possible that my wife makes everything up to put pressure on me.
Compulsive Gambling Symptoms, Causes and Effects. What Are the Signs of a Gambling Problem?. If you think you may have a gambling problem,.Although it is not recognized professionally the following is a coping method that many of us have used at the beginning of our recovery to help us cope.You are really a very good person for trying to do what is right for everyone.
Luckily, they are expanding the school and my daughter is now scheduled to attend there starting on September 2.
I hope she will gain more confidence and social skills with Toastmaster.I am telling myself that I have tried my best and there is nothing else I could do to help and it has to come from her.I think we would all wish to see our loved ones recover but there comes a time where a line has to be drawn unless we want to go down as well.
Then how can we do a complete turn around and say that it may be ok for a very young child, with no knowledge and no understanding or influence over their own welfare and safety to do the same thing that we feel the need to get away from.
I think my girlfriend is a gambling addict. deleted_user 02/13/2010. My girlfriend works in a casino,. I think she has a problem because she chases,.Love that little baby of yours - time is precious and they grow up way too fast.Not so, children pick up on a lot more than we think and the impact is without a doubt damaging.I hope she will buy a small condo so my daughter will have a decent and stable place to stay during the weekends.I know that they know exactly who are the problem gamblers but turn a blind eye.. Problem Gambling - The Hidden Addiction. Hi I have recently found out that my Fiance has a huge gambling problem. My life with my partner is getting worse.You now accept, although it worries you still that the likelihood is she will gamble all that money and that if she does, then those will be her consequences to live with, they will not be yours.I am trying mediation and guided relaxation so I can overcome my anxiety and it seems to help me clear my mind.
You can offer you CG the gambling literature, hotlines, GA etc but it is ultimately up to them to take advantage of these things.This will rat out the coworker that has been reporting to me about her absentism and she will know exactly what I think.My fiancee has a major gambling problem, he use to just put coupon on but now he looses money in the machine on rulette. I just had a baby 3 weeks ago, he.It is good that you can feel safe enough to voice your concerns here that you are not sure if you love your wife anymore because there is never any judgement on this site and nobody would ever tell you to leave her.I now have learned to enjoy life, being positive, and believe that I am entirely in control of my own happiness.This is just to show that your wife has a problem, as the courts always like to keep families together.
I have the same issue as well.I found out about my husbands gambling through a text message from a fellow gambler.Next thing you know someone might tell you that she gambled because the weather was bad that day.
Of course this is extremely tough on you, but never feel like you are breaking the family, or taking your daughter away from her mother because guilt and others will tell you to work on it more.My most immediate concern is what happens when my wife hits bottom.My ex still goes to the casino regularly and sadly she takes my daughter there to have dinner at the buffet sometimes.It is good that you are getting support for you, I am sure that is what is helping you to deal more calmly with the chaos around you and long may it continue.
It is difficult, I know, for the loved one not to remind the CG (compulsive gambler) that their addiction has indeed caused endless suffering when they are fed up, depressed, confused and angry.It seems to me, from reading you post, that your mother-in-law will have a capacity for understanding you and your situation better than most.After being confronted he admitted to having a really bad money problem.I think I have a gambling problem. My Husband Has A Gambling Addiction;. 8:16. What To Do When You Have a Gambling Problem.I could not begin to speculate on what is causing your wife to say she wants to give up her child but, while it is so, I am glad that you are making a place of safety for your daughter because she is the saddest outcome of all the problems in your lives.